Cybelian Marriage is today's answer to centuries of male-dominated unions. In a Cybelian Marriage, it is the woman who is the primary partner; the man's place is secondary from the outset. Hence it is suitable only for unions in which the female is assertive and the male unassertive. This involves an initial agreement between the two people; requiring each to be fully cognizant of the other one's wishes, and vowing in the Cybelian Wedding vows to remain true to the promises made. Love can play as big a part in Cybelian marriages as in traditional ones, but it is within the context of a female-led relationship. Also, love is not a requirement - as many Cybelian women feel only contempt for the man they marry.